Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Boundaries.....

As children we're given boundaries from our parents. What not to do & what we should do..what's polite or what is rude..but what about as adults?
As adults we make our lives more complicated. From everyday relationships to acquaintances ...how we conduct ourselves...With some of our relationships we're very open , honest & wear our hearts on our shoulders. With others we are guarded, unsure..why is that? Why is it we are so much more open with certain people than others..Some times when we first meet a person we all ready know that we can trust them we automatically know and for others we are guarded and unsure. If we are unsure why do we still persist with those relationships..Is it to remind us of what characteristics to be cautious of...maybe show our children that it is good to be around all types of people no matter what their background is..Either way there seems as adults our boundaries become blurry.....but we make our relationships more complicated than it should be..One thing for sure is we lose our honesty, goodness & innocence as adults as we get older....
Just a thought...